My name is Indigo Ferra, and I am currently in my
mid-twenties. I live in the UK and USA. I have an interesting backstory to say
the least. My mom had me right after she graduated college, my parents got
married a few months after I was born. My dad wasn’t a stellar character, and
they divorced when I was three. My mom moved us to be closer to her family in
Georgie, where she worked three jobs to support me as a single mom. We lived
with my grandmother for a bit, tried renting, then found a family that was
moving to Japan. The family let us live in their house rent free, as long as we
took care of their dogs. My mom leaped at the chance to save money. We stayed
in that house for five years, and the money she saved paid off the debt she
incurred when I was a baby.
I'm obsessed with unicorns |
I was diagnosed with dyslexia when I was five. My mother
wanted to give me the best education possible, so she worked insane hours to
pay for me to attend private school for three years. But the bill eventually
became to much to handle financially, and my dyslexia was under control, so I
switched to a public school.
Following the death of my grandmother from colon cancer, my
mother and her new husband decided to move away from the South and start a new
life in Washington state. We bought two vacant lots, and a cabin kit on one of
the small San Juan Islands. Instead of hiring builders, over the period of a
year and a half, we built our own house. It wasn’t easy by any means, I stepped
on nails and had boards dropped on my head. But I also learned to pour concrete
and place pipes. To save money (a theme all throughout my life) my (now
pregnant) mother, stepfather, and I lived in a 10 by 10 foot bunk house. It had
bunk beds, a toilet and a sink. We had to do all of our cooking on a grill, and
we took outdoor baths, even in the winter. The economy in America was starting to go
downhill, so my stepfather decided to chase a dream and teach English in China.
We were supposed to only be in China for nine months, but
that turned into 3 years. I was 13 when we moved, and I was mostly home schooled
while I attended a Chinese language college. Both my parents taught English,
and saved all of their money so we could adopt an orphan whilst in China. In
2008 we adopted my deaf brother Colt. He was four years old (the same age as my
sister) and he had severe brain damage.
After adopting Colt, we moved back to America. I was 16, and
after years of having control over my education, I wasn’t eager to attend high
school. Instead, I tested into a university program that allowed me to start
college early, and have Washington state pick up the bill. I graduated from
Whatcom Community College with my Associates Degree in Arts and Sciences.
I missed the warmth of the south, so after earning my AA I
moved to New Orleans where I decided to finish my final two years of university
at Loyola University. I developed an eating disorder after my first term of
college away from home, and had to attend and eating disorder rehab center.
This didn’t get me off track in my education, I went to summer school and still
graduated with my class, just one week after my 20th birthday.
I love animals |
In New Orleans my mother decided to use her family
inheritance to buy an empty lot and a derelict duplex house on the borderline
of the New Orleans ghetto. To save money, I lived in the house. It had no hot
water, only cold. I only had a mini fridge for my food, and one fan to keep me
cool. Oh, and did I mention the house had no electricity? I had to run all my
appliances off an extension cord. For protection, I got a dog from the local
humane society. I was working part time and going to school, so I was
responsible for most of my own bills. Sometimes I had to pick between feeding
my dog, or myself. I thought that was the worst things could get, living in
that house.
But after I graduated, no one wanted to hire me. I was
twenty, with a good degree, but I was too young to be put in a professional
position. So, I had to move back in with my family. My parents also struggled
to find employment so they moved to Missouri where the cost of living was
drastically cheaper. My mom worked at Americorp and my stepdad was a
landscaper. I worked three jobs to pay my bills, I was a nanny, a substitute
teacher and I worked in retail. Because my family didn’t have much money, the
only place we could rent was a trailer. The trailer was the worst place I have
ever lived, and that includes a tiny shed and a house with no power. The trailer
was disgusting, impossible to keep clean, freezing cold in the winter and
boiling hot in the summer because it had no insulation. It leaked, there was
mold, and if it was windy, I thought we might tip over.
Living like that for a few months put a hunger in me. I
decided to move abroad and go to get my Master’s degree in England. I worked
all my jobs, and cashed in my minor investments to buy a ticket to the UK. I
was accepted to Warwick University with one of the their only international
student scholarships. I graduated with honor’s in political science when I was
22.
But hard times hit me again. I was an American living in
England. No one wanted to hire me because it took too much paperwork. The only
place that would take a chance on me was a nursery/daycare where I now work
part time.
I’ve had jobs to support myself since I was 12. I had to buy
my own clothes when I was 13, and pay my own bills at 18. If I didn’t like the
food in my house, I had to pay for something else to eat. I’ve been working on
and off for over ten years. I’ve had 10 different jobs in all sorts of fields,
from childcare, to cooking, to walking dogs. I know firsthand what it is like
to struggle to pay bills. To be without health care, or the ability to feed
yourself. In all my trials, I’ve learned all sorts of tricks and methods to
saving money, while still looking good. I didn’t realize how thrifty I was
until I came to England, and saw how much less I spent on things like clothing
and food than most people. I am the queen of the #doitcheap lifestyle.
My bible |
I write this lifestyle blog to discuss politics through the
eyes of someone who understands the system but also knows what it is like to be
on the bottom rung of the class ladder. I do my best to share all of my money
saving hacks, and share my knowledge on getting stuff for free or extremely
reduced cost. I truly believe that you can have just as great of a life as
richer people, if you put in the effort to get things for less.
I do work part time now, but my main job is writing this blog and novels. My ultimate goal/dream is to become a published author and spend all my time writing.
No comments:
Post a Comment